Not Everyone's Cup of Tea
I mean, HONESTLY THO... 🤦🏼♀️
If we could all just assume the best of each other, instead of the worst.... I think the world would be a lot better place. ✨
Some might think that’s a naive way to live. But, DANNNNNG, It’s saved me a lot of grief. And, definitely saved me from a TON of drama. 🎉
People WILL misread things, read INTO things or downright project their insecurities onto YOU. 💁🏼♀️
Don't worry, I’m fully aware that I still do this too, I know I misread people’s intentions all the time because I’m seeing them through MY life experience lens. But, for the most part, I’m SO MUCH MORE AWARE of this fact - that I’m looking through a LENS. Always!! 🧐
I assume the best of people until I’m PROVEN wrong. Because I would hope that people would do the same for me. 🤷🏼♀️
Sometimes, messages on social media can seem short or ill-timed. Sometimes, phone calls with loved ones can end hastily. Sometimes, what’s meant to be said in love is delivered incorrectly or recieved incorrectly - or BOTH!! 😬
But, you NEVER know what people are going through or where they are coming from.
So, we must react with heavy servings of GRACE.
Because it’s pretty RIDICULOUS when ANY OF US tries to judge another human being... because WE haven't experienced this world through THIER lens.
WE can't POSSIBLY understand. 🤗
Our life journeys are as unique as our fingerprints and no two journeys will look the same. Let me repeat that...
👉🏼 NO TWO JOURNEYS LOOK THE SAME.
So, no two peoples perspective’s will ever be the same. 🙅🏼♀️
And while you go around trying to give people the benefit of the doubt & avoiding judgement, remember that not everybody else will do this for you.
>> YOU CANNOT please everyone and you CERTAINLY won’t be everyone’s cup of tea. ☕️ <<
Remember that.... & in fact, PLAN ON IT.
Life is too short to worry too much about what other people think of you or don’t think of you.✌🏼
Honestly, in the big scheme of things, the Creator’s opinion & your relationship with Him is the only one that really matters anyway. 🙏🏼
& it can be such a FREE & BEAUTIFUL life when you let go of trying to please anyone else. 🤗